Happy New Year!

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We spent a quiet holiday week at home, making Lego creations; playing board games; reading books; practising yoga and dancing; making music; knitting; watching movies by the fireplace next to the Christmas tree; and going for walks. Although the snow arrived belatedly several days after Christmas, to the delight of Wanderlust Juniors we spent a morning making snowmen in our front yard. Walks in the winter always seem to be more pleasant with a bit of snow on the ground.

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We rang in the new year quietly. Mr. Wanderlust and I stayed up until 1 a.m., making plans for the upcoming months while drinking champagne that we received as a present from my parents and munching organic tortilla chips. I joked about having already broken one of my resolutions: avoiding snacking and generally eating after dinner. In truth, I do not believe in making resolutions. However, I do set aside time to review the year that has passed and set intentions for the year ahead.

I learned several years ago that when we make resolutions based on external factors such as someone else’s research about the best diet and the most effective forms of exercise, we soon forget about the resolutions because they do not reflect our truth about ourselves. What works for one person might have a very different effect on someone else. Reading Gretchen Rubin’s book, Better than Before, reinforced my own hypothesis. At about the same time when I accepted this fact, I stopped paying close attention to ‘health and fitness’ advice that so many people readily bestow upon anyone within earshot. I also became aware of my own previous tendency to offer unsolicited advice. Instead, I chose the freedom of creating space for myself to study my own habits and get to know myself better in order to create positive personal changes.

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To set my clear, true intentions for the year ahead, I ask myself about my heart’s desire. I ask myself how I picture myself at my ultimate best state — this includes perfect physical, mental and emotional health and wellness. Those are my guidelines for setting intentions. From that space, I am able to create a vision for the year ahead. When I know how I want to feel, I can make positive changes to bring me closer to that ultimate state. (That is also how I know that snacking between meals and eating late in the evening are, for me, a recipe for indigestion.)

Year after year, I continue to return to the same intention that encompasses all my other goals and allows me to stay true to my ultimate vision: To be the best version of myself, every day. 

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Do you make New Year’s resolutions? What are your intentions for the year ahead? Do you follow certain guidelines while creating intentions? Please leave a comment below and feel free to share this blog with a friend.

Wishing you a wonderful start to 2016!

Several days ago, I celebrated my 33rd birthday on a beautiful beach with my family. In the recent years, I learned that this is my favourite way of celebrating. My birthday is the start of a new year for me, and I view it with great significance as I continue to write my story, adding on to the journey and learning more about myself.

The number 33 is one of my favourites, and here are three quirky ways in which the number holds personal significance for me:

  • My life path number is 33, signifying a deep connection to humanitarian causes, altruism, and leadership. I have never thought of myself as a great leader, but neither have I ever been a follower. As a Leo, natural leadership is also in my astrological chart, but I have always been more of a wallflower, quietly exploring my inner world and feeling deeply curious about the people around me.
  • I remember my mom very clearly at 33. I was 8 years old when she was 33, always a vision in beautiful feminine dresses perfectly tailored by my grandmother, with her hair piled elegantly in a perfect chignon. She never consciously tried to attract anyone’s attention, but she couldn’t help it. Once, when I introduced myself to a girl who lived in our neighbourhood and mentioned that I have a sister, she remarked, “Oh, I saw you and your sister walking together the other day. Your sister was pushing a baby in a stroller. Was she babysitting?”

“Um… No,” I replied. “The baby is my sister. The lady pushing the stroller is my mom.” I giggled as I watched my friend’s jaw drop in disbelief.

  • At 33, my father uprooted with us, his family, to a different country, leaving the rest of our family behind and embarking on a journey that has shaped our future in a remarkable way. Our world was turned upside down and I had to learn early on to navigate an extremely extroverted middle eastern society as a quiet introvert homebody. These days, I am a homebody who craves nomadic adventure, no longer terrified of speaking my mind and chatting with strangers.

Also, just because I’m a big Tolkien nerd, I am giddy at the thought that for hobbits, 33 is considered to be a ‘coming of age’ year.

I hope you will continue to follow along with me as I continue this journey and the lessons it offers. Sending gratitude to you, dear readers, for your loyal support!

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